Our Rules.

No means no. End of story. Ask once — if the answer isn't a clear yes, it's a no. Do not ask again. Do not negotiate. Do not try a different approach. Move on.

Always ask before touching. We know that some of our venues have loud music and that holding a full conversation isn't always possible. In those situations, be smart about it: a light touch on the shoulder or arm is ok as an opener — then pause and look for a clear, physical confirmation that it's ok to continue. If it's not obvious, it's a no.

• Consent can be withdrawn at any moment, even mid-activity. Stop immediately, no questions asked.
• Uncertainty is a no. If you're not sure — stop and check in.
• Being drunk does not excuse anything. All rules apply regardless of sobriety level.

Every attendee receives a coloured bracelet at the door. Respect the colour — no exceptions, no excuses.

• 🔴 Red — No sexual interaction. I'm here to socialise and enjoy the space. Do not proposition me, period.
• 🟡 Yellow — Open, but let's talk first. I'm potentially interested but need to connect and feel comfortable before anything happens. Be patient, be human, read the room.
• 🟢 Green — Let's play. I'm here to engage sexually. That said, green is not an invitation to grope or assume — ask first, always. It simply means you can be direct about your interest.

Bracelets also carry a buddy signal:

• 🫂 Buddy Needed — I'm here alone and would appreciate company. Please check in on me, don't leave me standing by myself.
• 🧘 Solo & Fine — I'm here independently and happy to navigate the space on my own. No need to look after me.

No phones. No cameras. Full stop. Most venues already enforce a no-phones policy — we do too. The only exceptions are if you've specifically asked the organisers in advance (e.g. to control a remote toy, or for a medical reason). If in doubt, ask us before the event.

• Do not share the venue's location, address, or any identifying details — not publicly, not in any group chat outside of our own channels.
• Drinking is fine. Being a little drunk is fine. Getting sick, blacking out, or losing control — not ok. You will be asked to leave and may not be invited to future events. Drunkenness is not an excuse for any behaviour that breaks these rules.
• Keep the space clean. Any mess you make — sexual or otherwise — you clean up. Leave every area the way you found it, or better.
• No shaming. Don't make fun of anyone, don't point, don't laugh at. Not your body, not their choices, not their kinks, not their level of participation. Ever.

This is an LGBTQ+ inclusive and body-positive space. All are welcome. We actively work to make this feel safe and comfortable for everyone — that means you have a role to play too.

• No staring. A look is fine. A glance is fine. We are naked, we enjoy our bodies and each other's. But don't just stare. If you find yourself unable to stop looking at someone — go talk to them. Tell them. Being honest and upfront about it is almost always the better move, and you'll find it easier to handle than you think.
• Any form of discrimination — homophobia, transphobia, racism, body shaming, or any other — is grounds for immediate removal, even if unreported.
• Respect pronouns. If you're unsure, ask politely. Getting it wrong once is human — refusing to correct yourself is not acceptable.

If you witness or experience a boundary violation, speak to an organiser immediately. Organisers wear a distinct identifier at every event. You can also report after the fact through your member account. The person reporting can stay anonymous if requested.

Our three-strike system applies per event, not per individual report:

• First report: A private conversation with the organiser team. Taken seriously, handled with care.
• Second report: A final conversation, plus a ban from the next event.
• Reported after a ban: Permanent ban from all Wet & Naked events.

We reserve the right to evaluate each situation individually and act outside this framework when the severity of an incident warrants it.